The Blame Game...

Ladies, Ladies, Ladies why is that when YOUR MAN cheats with another woman, you get mad with the other woman and not the man who's LOYALTY LIES WITH YOU? She's not to blame. Understand she owes you nothing, so being mad with her is POINTLESS. I've been cheated on by a man who i trusted with my life. I knew who the woman was, but there was NO NEED for me to take anything up with her.  My problem was with him, and that's who i blamed. I was sleeping with him, NOT HER. There was no need for me to utter 2 words to this woman, even though she was well aware of  who i was. Instead i dealt with him accordingly. I packed my shit and i left him, and i NEVER LOOKED back. The bottom line was MY MAN WAS UNFAITHFUL TO ME, and she was irrelevant in my eyes. If a man leaves you for another woman, why would you even waste your energy being mad at her? HE LEFT YOU 0_o. Stop blaming her, when the person you should be blaming is laying right next TO YOU.:)