Loving Without Fear:)

I think everyone has experienced a bad break up at some point in their life. I know I've had a few lol. After my last break up i took 8 months just to get my mind right. Alot of people can go from one relationship to another, and I'm knocking people who do, i just knew that after my last break up i needed to take time to really heal. i think that after a bad break up the WORSE thing  you can do is try and be with someone else. What ever that happened in your last relationship, you'll carry that baggage into your next relationship, and that's not fair to your new partner . If the relationship ended because of cheating, you may have trust issues. Now you find yourself with a new partner, thinking about what your last partner did to you, and making them pay for it. Your new relationship is already DOOMED. What ever you went through in your past has to stay in the past, in order for you to move forward with someone else. To love and be loved is an awesome feeling, but it is utterly impossible to have a successful relationship with someone, if your still holding onto what happened to you in your past relationships. You have to learn to LOVE WITHOUT FEAR, AND TRUST THE UNKNOWN. Well at least that's just how i see it.