Staying in YOUR LANE...

Why oh why do some females feel the need to be HEARD. Ladies if your dating a man who has children from a previous relationship it is important that he has a relationship with his children, and a cordial relationship with the mother of his child/children. The worst thing a female can do is to try and come in between that relationship. Understand your place is with HIM, and that's IT. You  NEVER  VOICE how you feel to his child/children's mother. You have to keep your PERSONAL feelings to YOURSELF. Trying to make yourself relevant in a situation that does not concern you will only make matters WORSE. So instead of trying to drive a wedge between them, you really should try to figure out how you can incorporate his children's MOTHER into your LIFE, Because she's not going anywhere lol. That's something you HAVE TO UNDERSTAND.