You Can't CHANGE NO ONE....

Why is it that when we get into a relationship, we start thinking that we can change our partner. People are who they are, and when someone shows you who they are BELIEVE THEM. Stop thinking that he or she will eventually change FOR YOU<---0_o. Because they won't. Sitting around waiting for someone to change into the person YOU WANT them to be is a waste of time, and your time is one thing you can't get a refund on. You have two choices though. You can either except the person for who they are, and love them regardless of their FLAWS, or you can cut your losses, and find someone that meets your REQUIREMENTS. It's just that simple! If a woman was a slut when you met her, the chances of you changing her whorish ways is VERY SLIM. <----she has to want to change her ways. A man that beats up on woman, has to want to stop his behavior. A over weight person has to want to stop stuffing their face. An Alcoholic has to want to stop drinking. No matter how much YOU LOVE THEM, change is something that comes from WITHIN. At the end of the day it's what you can deal with, and if you can't love and except someone for who they are, Do yourself a favor and LET GO...